How many times have you said, I can’t take this anymore! but accepted it anyway? How often do you put yourself down? What about criticizing yourself? Do you ever belittle yourself to fit in? Do you tell yourself you are going to be confident and courageous then wimp out?. Do you want to say no and hear yes fall from your lips? Do you stop when you want to push forward? Have you ever pushed forward when you felt like giving up? Do you ask for it, and then doubt you will get it? Do you wish you would get it, but scared if you do? If you have done any of this, or any similar facsimile thereof, face it, you are confused.
In order to get what you want, you must say what you mean. In order to say what you mean, you must know what you want. When you know what you want, you can think and speak positively and expect the best.
Remember: To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did